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As 2024 draws to a close, we reflect on the challenges and victories we’ve experienced during the past year. OutSmart magazine remains committed to telling the stories that matter most to our community, from advocacy and justice to the arts and our vibrant social scene.

This month’s coverage begins with the FDA’s June 18 approval of Lenacapavir—marketed as Yetzugo®— the first long-acting HIV PrEP drug combining twice-yearly injections with oral pills. Trials at Houston’s Crofoot Research Center under Dr. Gordon Crofoot showed 96 percent efficacy, minimal side effects, and high adherence in diverse participant groups. Gilead now partners with pharmacies, insurers, nonprofits, and six generic manufacturers to expand access through patient-assistance programs and global PrEP networks.

Inside this November issue, you’ll find several stories that showcase Houston’s resilient LGBTQ community. Writer David Clarke explores how the ManKind Project’s New Warrior Training invites queer men to deepen their understanding of identity, purpose, and connection. Writer Ian L. Haddock highlights the advocacy work of Ritchie T. Martin Jr., a new addition to the Allies in Hope organization. Martin shares some of the insights he gained from working with marginalized communities in Milwaukee.

This month’s Community section features writer Terrance Turner’s look at some of our local LGBTQ nonprofit charities, which should help get you in the holiday spirit by supporting their vital work in the community. It’s time to show up for a few of your favorite organizations, both this month and throughout the year! In other news, writer Sam Byrd showcases the ongoing work of Out For Education, another one of our great fundraising charities that empowers our future LGBTQ leaders by offering them college scholarships.

Next, we meet Tim Martinez, who shifted from banking and student-loan marketing to nonprofit leadership in 2003 by joining Montrose Clinic’s board and guiding its 2005 merger with The Assistance Fund into Legacy Community Health. Hired in 2009, he rose to Vice President of Major Gifts & Planned Giving, growing a $4 million clinic into a 60-site, $400 million network and pioneering Texas’s first AIDS and COVID testing programs.

The Montrose Center is observing the annual International Transgender Day of Remembrance on November 20 by hosting HOPERA’s production of As One, composer Laura Kaminsky’s poignant opera that explores a trans artist’s journey of self-discovery. Arts writer Rich Arenschieldt fills us in on the opera’s 10-year evolution following its 2014 New York premiere.

This October issue features the winners and finalists in our 27th annual Gayest & Greatest Readers’ Choice Awards. After tallying thousands of votes cast by our loyal readers, we are proud to profile 12 of these winning individuals and businesses from the LGBTQ community, starting on page 33. This year’s lineup includes not only a few of Houston’s well-known leaders in politics and business, but also an impressive sampling of young artists and activists who are making a difference. Thanks to OutSmart writers David Clarke and Connor Behrens for highlighting these Gayest & Greatest winners. We hope to see you at this year’s Gayest & Greatest Awards party at South Beach on October 23, from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. You’ll be able to enjoy drink specials and entertainment with emcee Derrick Shore as you mingle with many of this year’s winners and finalists. Thanks to our event sponsors Bayou City Smiles, Legacy Community Health, Premier Wireless, Silver Eagle Houston, Senior Medicare Patrol, and South Beach Houston for making this year’s celebration a success.

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curator of the Gulf Coast Archive and Museum of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender History (GCAM). That local institution is in the midst of reorganizing and expanding their mission to preserve the archives and memorabilia of Houston’s leather community.

Personality and Best Local LGBTQ Social Media Presence, shares his journey to success on Mix 96.5. Donald Simon III, who won Best Men’s Clothing Store, describes how he built King Underwear into a successful brand that celebrates its diverse clientele.

Franklin Berry overcame addiction and supported HIV/AIDS clients in Atlanta and New York before launching Noché Berry’s Salon in Galveston in 2020. His porch-born salon combines expert cosmetology with back-toschool drives and community gatherings that uplift the island.

On the lighter side, Ryan M. Leach’s annual Top 10 list offers a witty take on a few of 2024’s winners and losers. In the midst of so much political turmoil, it’s encouraging to celebrate winners such as Delaware’s incoming Congresswoman Sarah McBride. As the nation’s first transgender lawmaker to serve in Congress, McBride was greeted with a barrage of Republican hostility, and she has been handling the turmoil with grace and dignity.

eycomb paper ornaments and an elegant red bow tree-topper add a festive touch that theater-goers attending the Alley’s holiday production of A Christmas Carol will appreciate.

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International Non-Binary People’s Awareness Week (July 14–20) spotlights Houston artist Wyntress X’ion, whose fine art, fashion, and performance explore identity and healing. A self-taught Black queer creator, X’ion thinks nonbinary is their superpower—merging masculine and feminine energy—and urges broader recognition while challenging assumptions.

Since 2016, Lindsey White has served as United Way Galveston’s executive director, channeling her “I ♥ GALVY” mission into disaster-relief funds, Born Learning Trails, and civic-engagement efforts. Guided by family values and personal trials, she mobilizes volunteers to strengthen Island resilience while enjoying free time with her wife, Maryanne.

Our October entertainment feature spotlights Cyndi Lauper ahead of her farewell tour that includes a stop in Houston next month. Writer Gregg Shapiro spoke with Lauper about her fond memories from four decades of recording and touring. She also revealed her passion for political activism that has inspired many of her LGBTQ fans to become informed voters.

In our Arts & Entertainment coverage, writer Michael Robinson interviews “The Pope of Trash,” John Waters—the iconic filmmaker who comes to town with a livecommentary screening of his movie Hairspray on November 14.

“I call Hairspray a ‘Trojan horse of joy.’ People come for the laughs and the music, and leave with a little subversive message on the side,” Waters once said. This legendary director and infamous provocateur also graces our November cover.

in 17th-century England. Clarke also previews Filipino artist Royal Sumikat’s stunning mural The Queens of the Tarot, which is part of an interactive new art installation at Meow Wolf in the Fifth Ward. And finally, writer Olivia Flores Alvarez chats with Houston Center for Photography director Anne Leighton Massoni about her provocative new exhibition featuring images of hidden same-sex desire in repressive cultures.

We hope to see you at our annual OutSmart Holiday Party on Friday, December 20 from 6 to 9 p.m. at Rich’s! Please join us for a festive evening of music, laughter, and toasting the year ahead with our family of readers and advertisers. You can RSVP and find updates on Facebook at tinyurl.com/3ktc62ye.

Writers Connor Behrens and David Clarke highlight two more winners from our 2024 Gayest & Greatest Readers’ Choice Awards. Jay Michaels, who won Favorite Male Radio

Then writer Brandon Wolf offers a compelling update on the ongoing immigration crisis and LGBTQ marriage issues for non-citizens. The incoming Trump administration’s policies will most likely threaten vulnerable immigrant families and our entire economy, which is heavily dependent on a hard-working immi-

Our cover stars Erica and Kristen Williams, whose cosplay meet-cute led to Galveston’s THrō Ceramics. Married in 2023, Erica crafts mid-century–inspired pottery while Kristen manages marketing and subscriptions, offering colorful mugs, serveware boxes, and inclusive workshops that energize Galveston’s

October is also LGBTQ History Month, so we asked veteran writer and historian Brandon Wolf to catch up with Judy Reeves, longtime

Our December arts and culture coverage celebrates creativity in all its forms—everything from Johnny Salvesen’s starring role in Opera in the Heights’ The Little Prince and 4th Wall Theatre Company’s irreverently funny holiday production to drag artist Tammie Brown’s charming rag-doll exhibit at the Galveston Arts Center. And for you bookworms looking for something new to read, our year-end roundup of impactful LGBTQ titles will keep you satisfied throughout the new year.

I would like to thank the Montrose Center for honoring me this month with their 2024 LGBTQIA+ Community Vision Award. For 31 years now, my vision for empowering Houston’s LGBTQ community through a monthly magazine has guided OutSmart ’s entire editorial staff. As we now face a social-media environment that threatens the very existence of local journalism, we are asking for your support to help us thrive in the digital age.

Navy veteran Brandt Matthew Molitor transformed a 1924 pharmacy into Pride Center Galveston, a hub with a coffee lounge, support groups, and veteran co-housing. As it celebrates its first anniversary, Molitor invites the community to host events that shape its future.

Writer Zachary McKenzie takes us behind the scenes at Stages, where Rose Morrigan stars in a clever, gender-bending comedy sure to please fans of Sherlock Holmes.

Catastrophic Theatre’s summer musical Another Ding-Dang Tamarie Show returns through August 2 at MATCH Houston, blending live music, rapid costume changes, and political satire, and this year features nonbinary talents Clarity Welch and Abe Zapata. Become a charter member of the OutSmart Foundation for LGBTQ News and Media today. Your donations keep us a vital voice for Houston’s and Galveston’s LGBTQ communities— help us continue sharing your stories.

Thank you for your continued support of OutSmart ’s local LGBTQ journalism. Together, we’ll head into 2025 by embracing its opportunities and challenges with hope and resilience.

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David Clarke also spoke with producer Michelle Britton ahead of her Texas premiere of PlayhouseCreatures, which pays tribute to the first women who were allowed onstage

Pride Galveston returns in late August as a free, adult-focused weekend. Co-directors Jamie and Terry Fuller-Waymire and Yvonne Tutt of the Island Rainbow Lesbian Society secure sponsors, permits, and city support for inclusive programming scheduled to avoid the worst of the summer heat.

And finally, we salute our cover star Raymond Valdez, a local interior designer who has been busy decorating one of the holiday trees in the Alley Theatre’s lobby. His delicate hon-

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On May 28, 2025, the Montrose Center presented “Get in Bed with the Montrose Center” at Hestens Luxury Bedding and Million Dollar Mattress in River Oaks. Pictured are Katie O’Neil, Taylor Dodge, Avnessh Oberoi, Kelly Nicholls, Meleah Jones, and Taylor Mabrie.

On May 30, 2025, Transformation, an all-trans speaker panel, was held at Pearl Bar. Pictured are Gianna Ramirez, Ethan Michelle Ganz, Atlantis Narcisse, Avery Belyeu, and Joelle Espeut

On June 1, 2025, Pride Houston 365 hosted its Market & Block Party at Neon Boots. Pictured are members of the board, brand ambassadors and volunteers.

On June 13, 2025, the Harris County Commissioners Court recognized The Caucus for its 50th anniversary. Pictured are Maria Gonzalez, Council Member Lesley Briones, Katharine Ligon, Dalton DeHart, Brandon Mack, Adrian Garcia, Judge Fran Watson, Judge Porscha Brown, Melvin Roberts Jr., Council Member Rodney Ellis, Stephen Miranda, Aaron Rublein, Austin Davis Ruiz, and Lane Lewis.

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On May 29, 2025, Eureka Heights Brew Co. hosted the LGBTQ+ Alumni Mixer & Pride Kickoff. Pictured are Syd Harris, Maggie Segrich, Council Member Abbie Kamin, Tammi Wallace, and Chandrayee Soneja.

On May 31, 2025, the HRC 2026 Houston Dinner “Unity in Community” was held at the Westin Galleria. Pictured are Josh Beasley, Brandon Wolf, and Andrew Hayes

On June 4, 2025, the Houston Bar Association LGBTQ+ Pride Mixer at which time Brian Klosterboer received the Benny Agosto Jr. Pride Award. Pictured are Chase Jones, Bonnie Simmons, HBA President Daniella Landers, Jeff Watters, Brian Klosterboer, Benny Agosto Jr., Lena Laurenzo, and Pamela Brantley

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26, 2025, The Bagneris, a Pride Soiree & Author Talk with Harrison Homer-Guy, was held at the Deluxe Theater. Pictured are Larry Bagneris and Harrison Homer-Guy.

10, 2025, the Houston City Council issued a proclamation for the 50th anniversary of Houston LGBTQ+ Political Caucus. Pictured are Aaron Rublein, Brandon Mack, Council Member Abbie Kamin, Mayor John Whitmire, Melvin Roberts Jr.,

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By GRACE YUNG, CFP

Medicaid and Long-Term Care

Most of us can’t afford prolonged eldercare costs, but these tips can help.

As life expectancy continues to rise, Americans face a longer retirement—and potentially, a more expensive one. For many older adults, particularly those impacted by chronic or degenerative conditions like Alzheimer’s disease, the financial burden of long-term care can be overwhelming. If you or a loved one doesn’t have long-term care insurance—or couldn’t qualify for it— Medicaid may end up being a crucial safety net. Understanding how Medicaid works and how to qualify is essential for those facing the high costs of aging and healthcare.

The Rising Costs of Aging and Health Care

Today’s longer lifespans come with a steep price. According to Fidelity’s most recent Retiree Health Care Cost Estimate, the average 65-year-old couple retiring in 2024 can expect to spend approximately $315,000 on healthcare expenses during retirement. That figure doesn’t even include the cost of long-term care, which can significantly outpace standard medical costs.

The Alzheimer’s Association reports that in 2024, the annual cost of nursing home care for individuals with Alzheimer’s disease can exceed $100,000—and with the disease lasting anywhere from 5 to 20 years, the financial toll can be devastating. Assisted-living facilities and in-home care options also carry high costs ranging from $4,500 to $7,000 per month, depending on location and level of care. Despite this, many people are unprepared. A 2023 Employee Benefit Research Institute (EBRI) survey found that just 13% of workers are very confident they’ll have enough money to pay for medical expenses in retirement. And long-term care insurance—which can help cover these expenses—is not an option for everyone due to high premiums or medical underwriting that can disqualify those with pre-existing conditions.

If a Long-Term Care Policy Isn’t an Option

Long-term care insurance can be a helpful tool—but it’s not universally accessible. Premiums increase dramatically with age and health conditions, often pricing out those who need it most. Some applicants are denied coverage

altogether. So, what happens if you don’t have long-term care insurance and can’t afford years of out-of-pocket care?

This is where Medicaid can come into play— as a last resort for many families facing the crushing cost of elder care.

Medicaid Coverage for Long-Term Care

Medicaid is a joint federal and state program that provides healthcare coverage to lowincome individuals, including older adults who need assistance paying for long-term care. Unlike Medicare, which generally does not cover extended stays in nursing homes or assisted living facilities, Medicaid can cover these costs—but only if you meet certain financial and medical eligibility criteria. What are those Qualifications? Each state manages its own Medicaid program, so income and asset limits vary slightly depending on where you live. That said, there are some general rules:

• Income limits: Most states set a monthly income cap for long-term care Medicaid eligibility. For example, in 2025, the limit for an individual in many states is around $2,829 per month.

• Asset limits: Typically, an individual must have no more than $2,000 in countable assets to qualify. Some assets, like a primary residence (up to a certain equity value), a car, and personal belongings, are exempt.

• Medical need: Applicants must also demonstrate a medical need for longterm care services. This often requires an assessment that shows the individual cannot perform a certain number of Activities of Daily Living (ADLs), such as bathing, dressing, or eating independently.

What If You Have Too Many Assets?

For individuals whose assets exceed Medicaid thresholds, there are a few options:

• Spend-down strategy: This involves using personal assets to pay for care until you reach Medicaid eligibility thresholds. However, this must be done carefully to comply with Medicaid’s rules.

• Medicaid planning with a legal professional: Elder law attorneys can help structure your finances—such as

setting up irrevocable trusts or transferring ownership of certain assets— well in advance of needing care. Keep in mind that Medicaid has a 5-year lookback period, which penalizes transfers made for less than market value within five years of applying.

• Community spouse protections: If one spouse requires nursing home care and the other remains at home, Medicaid allows the “community spouse” to retain a portion of income and assets without disqualifying the institutionalized spouse from benefits.

A Summary of Things to Consider

If you think Medicaid may be necessary in the future, consider taking the following steps:

• Start planning early because of the lookback period. Planning five or more years in advance can provide more flexibility and protect more of your assets.

• Document all financial transactions and keep clear records to avoid delays or penalties when applying for benefits.

• Consult professionals such as an elder law attorney or a financial-planning professional. They can help you evaluate your options and make informed choices.

In Conclusion

The financial toll of aging—especially in the face of chronic illness—can exhaust even a well-prepared retirement portfolio. For those who don’t have adequate long-term care insurance or who are medically ineligible for it, Medicaid may become the only viable path to receiving the care they need. While relying on Medicaid isn’t ideal, it does offer essential protections for the most vulnerable. By understanding how it works and preparing early, individuals and families can navigate this complex system with more clarity and confidence.

The opinions voiced are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual. Grace S. Yung, CFP®, is a Certified Financial Planner™ practitioner and the CEO & Founder of Midtown Financial Group, LLC, in Houston. Since 1994, she has helped LGBTQ individuals, domestic partners, and families plan and manage their finances with care and expertise. She is a Wealth Advisor offering securities and advisory services through LPL Financial, a Registered Investment Advisor. Member FINRA/SIPC. Grace can be reached at grace.yung@lpl.com.For more information, visit www.midtownfg.com or www.midtownfg. com/lgbtqplus.10.htm.

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Saturday, July 19

Wild Wild Wet Pool Party at Montrose Country Club

Join Out at the Rodeo for its first-ever pool party at the Montrose Country Club, sponsored by OutSmart magazine. Expect an unforgettable day of sun, country/disco mixes, and libations. tinyurl.com/mtrh76jd

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Thursday, July 10

JoJo Siwa Live at House of Blues Houston Queer icon JoJo Siwa brings an immersive party to House of Blues Houston with a live performance featuring audience participation and a DJ set. A dollar from the sale of each ticket will be donated to Dancers Against Cancer. tinyurl.com/2vhx6ut6

COMMUNITY

Wednesday, July 16

Film Screening of Loud Love

The Montrose Center, in collaboration with Alexander Jewish Family Services (JFS), presents a screening of Loud Love, a moving documentary that follows deaf gay couple Alan and Brian as they navigate the challenges and triumphs of building a family through international surrogacy. tinyurl.com/3vtxraf7

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Saturday, July 12

Houston Gaymers

Charity Car Wash

Houston Gaymers host a car wash to help fund their charity initiative Gaymers Give Back. All proceeds will benefit Tony’s Place.

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Saturday, July 26

Houston Gaymers

July Meetup

The Houston Gaymers’ monthly meetup is the place to make new friends while playing your favorite games. Every major system is represented with the latest titles.

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Friday, July 25

Queensbury Theatre Pride Night for The Last Five Years

The Queensbury Theatre hosts a Pride Night for The Last Five Years. Stick around after the show for a free post-show party with wine, bites, live entertainment, and a raffle. tinyurl.com/ye8z5v7k

STAGE

Thursday, July 24

Alley Theatre ActOUT for Agatha Christie’s The Mirror Crack’d Ticket holders for the July 24 performance of Agatha Christie’s The Mirror Crack’d can enjoy a pre-performance mixer with music, socializing, light bites, and drinks. tinyurl.com/4rzajj7d

COMMUNITY

Saturday, July 19

Houston Bears Go Wild at the Ripcord

Join the Houston Bears for their monthly fundraiser supporting 2025 beneficiaries Omega House, Out for Education, and Trans Legal Aid Clinic of Texas. tinyurl.com/4kn6mcxy

COMMUNITY

Saturday, July 26

Pride at the Water Park

Katy Pride, Fort Bend County Pride, and Pride Brenham team up to host the 2nd annual Pride at the Water Park. Purchase a 1-Day Pass or a 2025 Season Pass using the Katy Pride link (tinyurl.com/4mmxu37v), and a portion of sales will benefit Katy Pride. tinyurl.com/3n7tupvy

Community

Friday, August 1

Fruity Friday Bingo at Frost Town Brewing

Frost Town Brewing hosts Fruity Friday Bingo. The first card is free and proceeds from additional card sales benefit Trans Legal Aid Clinic Texas. tinyurl.com/3bck4zkk

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August 29–31

Pride Galveston 2025

Pride Galveston presents a full weekend of activities, including drag shows, a pool party, and a beach bash. tinyurl.com/y27nxsbc

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Thursday, October 2

Alley Theatre ActOUT for The DaVinci Code

Ticket holders for the October 2 performance of The DaVinci Code can enjoy a pre-performance mixer with music, socializing, light bites, and drinks. tinyurl.com/4rzajj7d

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The First Long-Acting HIV Prevention Drug Is Approved

Twice-yearly PrEP regimen delivers 96% efficacy and unprecedented convenience in the global fight against HIV.

by RICH ARENSCHIELDT

Lenacapavir received FDA approval on June 18, 2025, as the first long-acting, pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) for HIV prevention that is administered in two subcutaneous injections, accompanied by two pills, twice yearly. With breakthrough efficacy and unmatched convenience, it will transform worldwide efforts to manage and prevent HIV transmission.

This breakthrough new drug is marketed by pharmaceutical company Gilead Sciences under the name Yetzugo, the same company that pioneered the first PrEP medication in 2012 under the name Sunlenca.

Lenacapavir is part of a class of drugs known as Selective HIV-1 Capsid Inhibitors and works by binding to HIV and disrupting the virus in multiple sectors. This action prevents viral DNA from entering the nucleus of T-cells, thus inhibiting the assembly and replication of new HIV virions. This multiplesite attack strategy makes the drug especially efficacious. Historically, HIV’s mutation rate and virologic variability has enabled it to circumvent most available agents, suppressing their effectiveness and, over time, creating resistance that has inhibited successful treatment and made the possibility of a cure illusive.

In what is considered to be the most important breakthrough in HIV prevention to date, Lenacapavir displayed high efficacy (96%) in trials, a minimal side-effect profile, and high adherence to its easy, twice-yearly dosing schedule.

Dr. Gordon Crofoot of Houston’s Crofoot Research Center played a pivotal role in Lenacapavir’s creation, testing, and approval. Dr. Crofoot administered Lenacapavir for injection into a patient seven years ago as part of the first-in-human trial. Additionally, the Crowfoot Research Center was a top enrolling USA site for testing and research of the drug, prior to approval. Dr. Crofoot also published revelatory research on the treatment, includ-

ing an article in the New England Journal of Medicine in December, 2024.

Currently approved in several countries and awaiting approval in others, the drug was tested in multiple populations worldwide, including cisgender women and MSMs (Men Who Have Sex with Men) as well as Gender Diverse Individuals. In over 3,000 women aged 16–26, Lenacapavir was found to have 100% efficacy, with zero HIV infections in that cohort. Additionally, 510 pregnancies occurred, and those participants were allowed to remain on the study. This provided important early data on safety during pregnancy. In the MSM testing group, comprised of 2,178 men considered at high risk of contracting HIV, Lencapavir showed a 96% efficacy with only 2 HIV infections, versus 39 in the background population

There was a high degree of protection across a diversity of testing sites throughout

the US, Latin America, and Africa, especially in locales confronted with real-world adherence challenges in using medications that required more frequent dosing. With two treatments yearly, high adherence, efficacy in both men and women, and minimal side effects, Lenacapavir contributes to both physiological and psychological wellness, especially for those who struggle with the stress of daily pill routines and self-inflicted stigma.

The initial concerns about the drug—including mild injection site reactions, the need for continued long-term safety monitoring, and the possibility of resistance developing over time—all pale in comparison to its substantial public health benefit. Cost and access in some regions may be challenging but are being addressed. In a recent call with manufacturer Gilead Sciences, Crofoot discussed those issues, especially with regard to challenging

populations and geographic locations. According to Gilead, they are partnering with six international generic manufacturers to provide reduced-cost versions in 120 low- and middle-income countries. Gilead is actively assisting these countries in accelerating local regulatory approvals for PrEP use.

In the US, Gilead will partner with specialty pharmacies to ensure access and distribution, and is negotiating with insurance providers to quickly secure inclusion of Lenacapavir in their respective formularies. According to Gilead, patient-assistance programs and advanced-access programs will be available for both insured and uninsured patients.

Gilead does not expect any FDA prescribing restrictions—approval is anticipated for anyone who wants to use this formulation. Given its efficacy, they are motivated to ensure anyone who is a candidate for PrEP can access it. The company plans to collaborate with nonprofits to expand outreach and access for underserved populations.

In announcing the FDA approval Gilead stated, “Gilead is committed to helping to ensure that people without insurance will be able to benefit from Lenacapavir, and for those who are eligible, Gilead’s Advancing Access

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medication assistance will provide it free of charge.”

In terms of delivering this treatment to patients, a well-established infrastructure for providing PrEP already exists. Longstanding entities, including PEPFAR, (US President’s Emergency Fund for AIDS), Global Fund (The Global Fund to Fight AIDS, Tuberculosis and Malaria) and UNAIDS (The Joint United Nations Programme on HIV and AIDS) have decades of experience in HIV prevention and medication distribution.

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is serious concern about availability of this drug. The US has been, until now, the single largest worldwide funder of HIV medication and prevention initiatives. In spite of Lenacapavir’s groundbreaking effectiveness, there is real concern that current political initiatives—the downsizing of the Federal Health Budget and all of America’s global AIDS initiatives—could hinder access and availability, both domestically and worldwide.

The importance of this drug cannot be overstated. The well-respected journal Science named Lenacapavir its “Breakthrough of the Year” for 2024. Advocates and others are pushing for wide distribution to every individual who needs it, especially since Gilead stated that it can manufacture 10 million doses by 2026, enough to treat 2.5 million patients.

According to Dr. Crofoot: “Twice-a-year PrEP is groundbreaking. We’re testing once-ayear PrEP—almost a vaccine. It’s the future of HIV prevention.”

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Building Health Equity Throughout the Region

Tim Martinez reflects on guiding the Montrose Clinic through the AIDS crisis to its role as a regional lifeline.

by BRANDON WOLF

Tim Martinez grew up in a middle-class family in Fort Worth. “They sacrificed a lot,” he says, about his parents’ decision to provide expensive private-school educations for all three of their children. With a BBA from Texas Wesleyan University, his career path wandered through bank loan operations, college admissions administration, and student loan marketing.

After a development position at Project Row Houses in Houston, where he had moved from Dallas, Martinez says he followed the examples of Cher and Madonna and re-invented himself, making the choice to work in the nonprofit world. When a position opened at the Montrose Clinic, he found what he feels to be his true calling.

For the past 22 years, Martinez has been an important asset in the growth and development of Legacy Community Health. You might say that volunteerism and community service are in Tim Martinez’s blood. “My parents always found time to give back to the community and I saw this as a way that I could,” he comments.

When Martinez first joined its board in 2003, the organization was known as the Montrose Clinic, had one building, and operated on an annual budget of $4 million. Martinez says he never could have dreamed that the organization would grow into what it is today, with over 60 clinics and an annual budget of $400 million.

Looking back, the 63-year-old Martinez says he feels blessed to have been a part of this amazing growth. When it first opened its doors in 1981 in a small building on lower Westheimer, it was nicknamed “the clap shack,” a clinic for sexually transmitted infections (STIs) within Houston’s gay male community. The City of Houston and Harris County quickly enlisted its participation as it began to deal with a strange new disease labeled “gayrelated immune deficiency” (GRID). Later, as its origins became better understood, it was redefined as “acquired immunodeficiency syndrome” (AIDS).

Decades later, a friend of Martinez who

was a member of the Krewe of Olympus, where Martinez was also a member, knew of his previous experience on the board of the Executive and Professional Association of Houston (EPAH) and approached Martinez about serving on the Montrose Clinic board. When he joined the board as a volunteer in 2003, Martinez was surprised to discover how many crucial issues the board dealt with. He recalls discussions that led to the 2005 merger of Montrose Clinic with The Assistance Fund, which was founded to help people who were living with AIDS pay their health insurance premiums when they were no longer able to work.

The merged group adopted the name Legacy Community Health.

“We wanted to honor the legacy of all the patients we had helped during the worst of times,” Martinez explains. “We also wanted to honor the legacy of our staff who had helped our patients.”

In 2009, Martinez was asked to join Legacy’s professional staff as Manager of Development and Community Relations. In the years that followed, he was promoted three times: Director of Special Projects/Development; Senior Director of Development; and his current position as Vice President – Major Gifts & Planned Giving.

Martinez laughs when he remembers the title of Director of Special Projects/Development. “Quite often, when an organization wants to get rid of someone,” he says, “they put them in charge of special projects.” But in this case, it was the farthest thing from the truth.

During his tenure at Legacy, Martinez has worn many hats. When his focus was on community relations within the Montrose area, he represented Legacy at various community meetings, telling their story and hosting small fundraising events. “It was a lot of grassroots

work,” he says, “nurturing relationships and building partnerships.” Other projects included working with the Lesbian Health Initiative to host an annual lesbian health fair, and each year he was responsible for Legacy’s participation in Pride Month events—the Pride fair, the Pride festival, and the Pride parade.

When Legacy broke ground for its four-story Montrose facility at 1415 California Street in 2010, Martinez coordinated the effort to reward donations with donor names on bricks and pavers or engraved into the sidewalk. “I felt like it was really important that everyone be given a chance to get their name there. It was a huge undertaking,” he says.

Around 2016, when Martinez was charged with the responsibility to raise $15 million for a new building in Houston’s Gulfton neighborhood, he worked with a committee that included such power players as Trini Mendenhall, one of the founders of the Fiesta grocery store chain, and real estate legend Martha Turner. The campaign was moving along well until Hurricane Harvey diverted the focus of potential donors to the urgent needs of those affected by the storm. Despite this temporary setback, Martinez and his committee persisted until they had met their goal.

Martinez laughs as he remembers the day of the groundbreaking ceremony: “I think it was the coldest day in December. We’re outside and there’s a photo of Trini and I all bundled up and hugging each other to try to stay warm.”

The building did have a tree-topping, but the COVID outbreak eliminated any chance of a ribbon cutting.

Among the accomplishments that Legacy likes to make the public aware of is that they were the first agency in Harris County to offer COVID testing, and in the 1980s, they were the first healthcare group in Texas—and the second in the nation—to offer AIDS testing.

Tim Martinez at the 2018 groundbreaking, having successfully led the $15 million capital campaign to build Legacy Community Health’s Gulfton clinic.

Martinez’s fundraising genius has been a powerful contributing factor to Legacy’s phenomenal growth from an organization focused solely on the health and well-being of a gay population to Texas’s largest family healthcare organization—though he credits his manager, Chree Boydstun with teaching him everything he knows about fundraising.

“You won’t find us doing high pressure. Our story sells itself. We have been around for over 40 years, and help over 200,000 people a year,” Martinez says. “It’s about nurturing relationships.”

Donors are allowed to designate a specific program for their gifts, an approach that he says works much better than just putting donations into the general operating fund. Some examples of the various Legacy programs are HIV treatment/education, childhood literacy, school-based health, and women’s health.

“People wonder why we emphasize literacy. If you can’t read, how will you take your prescription medications? How are you going to get a job? Literacy sets you on the path for success,” he explains.

Martinez often talks to people who want to include Legacy in their estates. “Some of these gifts I will probably never see,” he says, “because some donors are younger than me. But this will be my legacy.”

Fundraising activities include an array of presentations, including talks to large groups, as well as small Saturday-afternoon home events called “friendraisers.” Other events include an annual golf tournament and an annual Mint Julep party. Recently, Legacy held a Fiesta event. But it isn’t just Martinez working alone—other staff members form a team that works to foster new relationships.

Although Martinez doesn’t see himself as a political person, when Annise Parker was running for the third time for a Houston City Council seat, he offered to host a fundraiser. The Parker campaign said they would be happy with a turnout of 20 or so people. When Parker arrived, she had difficulty finding a parking place. “I had to order pizza because we ran out of food,” says Martinez about the surprise crowd of 80.

When Parker became mayor, she appointed Martinez to the Mayor’s Hispanic Advisory Board. Mayor Sylvester Turner appointed him to his newly formed Mayor’s LGBT Advisory Board. Since 2023, Martinez has served on the board of Family Houston, an organization founded in 1904 by 12 prominent citizens after the devastating Galveston hurricane of 1900 and a serious smallpox epidemic.

Martinez has run several marathons and half marathons, partly because a friend once told him he would never finish. “Don’t tell me I can’t do something,” he says with a smile.

COLLABORATIVE COUPLE

Married Islanders Erica and Kristen Williams bring art to life at THrō Ceramics .

by ZACHARY M C KENZIE | photos by SAM WILEY

Like freshly formed clay patiently firing in a kiln, most good things take time. Such is the case for Galveston lovebirds Erica and Kristen Williams. The creative couple have blended their love for artmaking, family, and each other to make THrō Ceramics, their joint business, a success. The duo have separate roles at THrō, inviting customers and art appreciators alike to lean into their daily rituals and let their one-of-a-kind ceramic cups runneth over.

“We’re both from East Texas. Erica is from a tiny town called Hemphill, and I am originally from Waskom,” Kristen explains. “We both grew up coming to Galveston with

our moms, separately, ever since we were kids. We always loved it, but never had any intention of moving here.”

“Oh, we wanted out of Texas!” Erica quickly interjects.

“We traveled all over trying to figure out where we wanted to live, but nothing ever stuck. We couldn’t land on a place that felt right,” Kristen says. “We had no idea we would end up three and a half hours from where we were both originally from.”

The pair met in Beaumont, Texas, in 2019 when Kristen was working at a holistic wellness center and married to her now ex-husband. “I hadn’t come out as an adult,” Kristen recalls. “Erica has been in ceramics since college, but she also did personal training on the side.”

“My best friend who owned the center was looking for a personal trainer,” adds Erica, “and I thought, ‘Why not?’ I walked into the office one day, and Kristen was in there, floating around the room, waving palo santo around the office.”

The chemistry between the two was undeniable. “As time went on, it became very clear that there were actual feelings, but neither of us acted upon them,” says Kristen. Eventually, she embraced her sexuality and parted ways with her husband. “I moved to Sulphur, Louisiana, to temporarily live at my best friend’s house when COVID started,” she explains. “Erica was also moving to Sulphur to stay with one of her friends. She had bought a $500 Airstream a few years before, renovated it to live in, and parked it in front of her ceramic studio. One day she said she was moving back to get back to work and asked if I wanted to come with her. I said yes, and here we are, five years later.”

The couple wed in October 2023 and are proud to call Galveston home. “I don’t think anyone understands Galveston until they live here,” Kristen says. “We come from extremely small towns. Erica and I had never gone on a double date with a same-sex couple until we moved here. Here, we’re normal, and there are other artists and creative entrepreneurs also doing exactly what we’re trying to do.”

Today, Erica works full-time as a ceramic artist at THrō, while Kristen handles the admin and marketing side of the operation, in addition to her social media management work with various other clients.

“I started ceramics in college at Stephen F. Austin State University, but I was originally going for graphic design,” Erica recalls. The artist fell fast for ceramics, a random elective she chose to fill her course load, and told her mom, a professor at the same college, that she was changing her major. “I haven’t stopped since, and I’ve been doing this for more than 13 years now.”

Kristen (l) and Erica Williams in their Galveston ceramics shop.

While Erica gets her hands dirty with clay, Kristen is hard at work helping the art shine for their audience. “Erica produces insane numbers of pieces, and some creations weren’t getting as much attention as she wanted them to on social media,” says Kristen. “We had a come-to-Jesus talk and decided that, since we worked really well together, we should make it official. Erica does all things ceramic and I take care of glazing, the website, social media, emails, and more.”

Having spent much of her career working predominantly with neutral colors and clean lines, Erica’s work has undergone an artful evolution over the past two years. Margarita tumblers, coffee mugs, and serving trays are just a few offerings that the duo sell and are reflective of the new creative direction. “I’ve been studying mid-century architecture and my work is very colorful now. It’s very different for me, but I love it,” says Erica. “Our home has subtle pops of color now, and I love it. I feel like my work definitely reflects this season of our life.”

Often creating commissioned pieces for customers, including a sushi plate set currently in the works, the duo also partner with different businesses throughout Texas to sell Erica’s functional creations. Additionally, fans can purchase various subscription boxes. “Subscriptions are a little more affordable, and you get pieces of a set every month,” Kristen notes. "We are also launching our serveware, which will allow people to buy individual pieces, on July 28.”

As LGBTQ business owners, the couple have created a space for both of them to lean into their creative side, whether through purchasing items or teaching courses that the pair lead in tandem. “We love everyone,” Kristen says. “We see everyone from across the social and political spectrums who want to buy from us.”

“For me, it was always about creating a safe world to live in,” adds Erica. “I also wanted to create a safe space for everyone else.”The future is bright for the couple, who continue to build from a foundation of love that guides their journey in Galveston. “It took years before we were both in the same headspace to work together with the same vision,” Kristen states. “Now, we’re working toward the same goal in this community that really leans into its artists.” Erica closes by saying, “I don’t think that we’ll ever leave. We’re rooted here.”

Keep up with THrō Ceramics on Instagram @throceramics.

“IT TOOK YEARS BEFORE WE WERE BOTH IN THE SAME HEADSPACE TO WORK TOGETHER WITH THE SAME VISION. NOW, WE’RE WORKING TOWARD THE SAME GOAL IN THIS COMMUNITY THAT REALLY LEANS INTO ITS ARTISTS.”

— Kristen Williams, co-founder of THrō Ceramics

CROWNING GLORY

Franklin Berry ’s return to Galveston, and “the beauty of becoming.”

by IAN L. HADDOCK

photo by PIERRE @PRLPHOTOS

Franklin Berry, a native of Galveston Island, possesses many gifts that he has utilized to enhance the beauty of his surroundings, and the catalyst has been his consistent selfimprovement. Living in the housing projects, Franklin began to do his mom’s hair on the porch of Cedar Terrace. Though a young virtuoso of cosmetology, there was another issue Franklin fought: his sexuality and people knowing that he was a gay man. Because of the stigma of a small-town male doing hair being queer, after high school he chose to pursue work in the medical industry.

Stumbling into a world of drugs and alcohol, he soon found himself jobless and couchsurfing to stay off the streets. Determined to turn his life around, he relocated to Atlanta for a fresh start. Continuing his desire to support people through his gift of care, in Atlanta he found work in a support facility for those who were living with HIV/AIDS. He worked to empower his charges, encouraging them to feel comfortable in their own skin

“One of the ladies said that I was the only one that could take care of her,” says Franklin, “and I was reminded of my gift of beauty.”

It was just the boost he needed to pursue a career in hairdressing. After obtaining his Master Barbering License and gaining some professional experience, he moved to New York City to further refine his talents.

“I wanted to be a hairdresser, and I wanted to be able to do all textures and types of hair

because I didn’t want to limit myself,” he says.

New York was another opportunity to refresh his surroundings, but this time, it was on good terms with himself, with a vision for the future. In New York he worked with popular product companies and began using his gift of beauty to do work with the LGBTQ homeless population, as well as those dealing with substance use and mental illness. This created a full-circle moment that celebrated him embracing his calling in the beauty indus try, as well as being able to give back to people he might have encountered on his journey to sobriety.

The last move came on the cusp of his mother’s sickness in 2020 during COVID-19. He had always promised that he would return to help care for her when needed, and after liv ing eight years in the Big Apple, it was time to return home to fulfill that promise.

With all the self-improvement, professional development, and community empow erment Franklin had received in the decades leading up to and including his years in New York, he was not only ready to provide care for his mother but also to bring his talents and mission to the city where he was born.

In Galveston, he has opened Noché Berry’s Salon, where they give “a relaxing experience while getting the ultimate hair make-over and service guests with all textures of hair and provide a complete beauty makeover.” He has also created several initiatives, including “It Takes A Village,” a back-to-school drive where his salon partners with the Baby Stewart Foundation and NIA Culture Center to provide free haircuts and hairstyles to children, along with school supplies.

One of his proudest achievements is his Soul Food Sessions. These spaces combine food, poetry, and mental-health practitioners in a setting that feels comfortable for people of all types. This is healing not just for the people who enter, but also for Franklin.

“I’ve been pouring hope into some people who don’t have it, so they look at me and think I have it all together, but don’t know what I have been through,” he says, “and don’t know what I’ve had to endure to get to where I am, and it’s taken a lot of work through therapy and the support of others.”

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Though his mother passed away last year, Franklin has decided to stay in the HoustonGalveston area to continue her legacy of work in hopes of establishing the Phyllis Ann Foun dation in her honor. “I feel like I am ready to take on the world, and I am the best I have ever been, physically or mentally. I’m loving myself right now,” he says.

Galveston Island is better because Frank lin has come home to practice all of his gifts.

ROOTED IN THE ISLAND

At United Way, Lindsey White turns care into action for Galveston.

by DAVID CLARKE

“I ♥ GALVY” It’s not just a vanity plate for Lindsey White. It’s a personal mission statement.

White has lived in Galveston since she was 18, and her roots in the community run as deep as the Gulf. She’s led United Way of Galveston as executive director since 2016, and it’s clear from the jump that her work is driven by love—a love for the island, its people, and the possibility of what it can become. “Working at United Way of Galveston was an opportunity to live and work in the place that I love,” she says. “I submitted my résumé as soon as I heard that the position was open.”

Galveston is known for its tenacity and tight-knit community, and White fits right in. Whether spearheading disaster-recovery funds or painting playgrounds with local volunteers, she is guided by a specific principle: “This island,” proclaims White. “I love this island. I love the people in this town, and I want to make a difference, and I want the difference to be a positive difference.”

Under her leadership, United Way of Galveston has become a pillar of resilience, especially in the face of adversity. White recounts how the organization has had to “stand up the Galveston County Recovery Fund pop up three to four times” since she took the helm. “We did it for Harvey, we did it for COVID, we stood up for Snowvid, and then last year for Hurricane Beryl,” she explains. “We’ve adapted by being responsive to the natural and other disasters that have called on us, but we have not slowed down in our response. We’ve just picked up.”

But it’s not just about reacting to crises. White is particularly proud of initiatives like the Born Learning Trails, a series of educational outdoor spaces that bring kids, caregivers, and entire communities together. “Our Born Learning Trails are my favorite

initiative,” she says with a glowing smile. “It’s tangible. There’s five parks that I can drive you to and show you. I also love that the kids and volunteers that have been a part of installing them have something to show their family and friends.”

Beyond her formal role, White’s name has become synonymous with civic engagement. While not currently serving as she strategically realigns her work-life balance, White has proudly served on boards including Vision Galveston, Rotary, and the Chamber of Commerce. “It just always felt like something that I was supposed to be doing,” she reflects. “Volunteering got me plugged in. Then making friends and becoming attached to the organizations where I was volunteering kept me there and made me want to stay.”

That sense of purpose has been both tested and affirmed over time. During one particularly overwhelming period, White was hospitalized for four months after pushing herself to the brink in response to simultaneous crises. “I was so depleted from work that I could not function any longer,” she shares. “When I came back to work, I was astounded by how many people missed me, how many people noticed that I hadn’t been around, and how many people cared about me.”

Those deeply personal experiences shape how she leads today. “Fundraising does require authenticity,” she notes. “I brought that on purpose. I also wanted to make sure people knew who I was all the way around and through, because I am in a position where people see my work.” She also sees being authentic at work as a way to create safe spaces for all. “Maybe someone else who doesn’t think they can express themselves at work because they’re scared might see that that’s not always the case,” she adds.

White lives openly and proudly as a lesbian, and her marriage to Maryanne, a fifth-gener-

ation Galvestonian, is a point of strength both personally and professionally. “I get to say who I love out loud at work, and it’s wonderful,” she shares. “When I go to galas, I take my wife. They know her. If they don’t see her, they ask where she is and how she’s doing.”

Their mutual understanding of nonprofit life helps, too. “My wife began working at one of the partner agencies that we support,” White explains. “We do not discuss specifics as that would violate the NDAs we have signed, but she gets it. So when I can talk to her about what’s going on, she really understands where I’m coming from.”

White’s love for her family also shaped her leadership values. “My mom was a badass lady before ladies were badass,” she says with admiration. “She showed me what it looks like for a woman to be at work in male-dominated spaces.” Moreover, from her father she learned integrity. “What we do matters all the time, whether or not anyone’s looking,” is the lesson he instilled in her.

Looking ahead, White is energized about the work still to come. “We are working to engage another generation of givers,” she says. “United Way is known for the workplace giving model, but it’s not as popular amongst younger people. We want to make sure that they know and understand how much they can leverage their gift through the United Way to make a difference.”

As for what keeps her going, White’s answer is simple: “We have everything. I don’t care if people don’t think the water is pretty, it’s still a beach in the backyard that I get to drive by twice a day every single day” she says. “This town has a certain amount of grit and love that rarely go together, and I just love it so much.”

For Lindsey White, it’s always been about love. The love for her wife, her family, her community, and her Galveston.

“THIS TOWN HAS A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF GRIT AND LOVE THAT RARELY GO TOGETHER, AND I JUST LOVE IT SO MUCH.”

—Lindsey White

QUEER IN GALVESTON

When Brandt Matthew Molitor first walked into the old pharmacy building on 39th Street in Galveston, he wasn’t just seeing bricks and mortar—he was envisioning a space where everyone could be themselves in a safe haven for the LGBTQ community.

A Navy veteran, former teacher, and advocate for LGBTQ asylum seekers, Molitor’s life has been rooted in service. His legacy now continues through Pride Center Galveston, a new community hub created to fill a void on the island.

“We didn’t have a community service center here,” Molitor says.

That realization, paired with his back-

MAKING ROOM FOR PRIDE

Pride Center Galveston, led by founder Brandt Matthew Molitor.

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ground in activism and housing, drove Molitor to turn the building—originally purchased with his former partner—into something deeply personal and needed.

“I chose to continue on with it, thinking that he might rejoin the marriage,” he says. “He has not. So, this project has had to reflect more me than what we were as a couple.”

The 1924 building has a long history of community use—from AA meetings to afterschool programs—and Molitor saw an opportunity to build on that legacy. “It already kind of had a legacy of service to the neighborhood,” he explains, “so when I came in here, it was a matter of figuring out what we were going to do in this space.”

Approaching one year since opening in September 2024, Pride Center Galveston is

more than just an idea—it’s a growing network. It began with the Galveston Gay Chorus, which started meeting before the building was even open. “We started forming our first group back in June of last year,” Molitor says. “It doesn’t matter how rough a week you’ve had, when you come into that chorus group, it’s a reset.”

Now, the center offers everything from a coffeehouse-style lounge to a redesigned speakeasy space with both alcoholic and nonalcoholic options, mindful of those in recovery. Upstairs, several bedrooms are being converted into affordable long-term rentals for those in need, including veterans and people referred by local housing agencies.

“It’s co-housing,” Molitor explains. “There’s safety in numbers. Our community has some needs.”

The center’s goal is simple: to foster connection. “We need better social friendship connections on the island because you can’t get anything done by yourself,” Molitor says. “You have to have friends that help you.”

Inspired by his work with asylum seekers in Massachusetts—where he and his thenpartner helped house LGBTQ refugees in collaboration with a local church—Molitor has long believed in community through shared experience. That belief fuels everything the Pride Center does.

“When it comes down to it, it’s about community and friendship,” he says. “Helping one another.”

Now Molitor is calling on the larger Galveston community to help shape the center’s future. “I’m hoping more people will host events here as they see the space and experience it,” he says. “I don’t want to lead every event, I want others to make it their own.”

Even the building’s location, just a few minutes’ walk from Galveston College and Ball High School, was chosen with clear intention.

“For locals, it would be easy enough to get to when they learn about it,” Molitor says.

Of all the challenges he’s faced—renovating a historic building, managing evolving pro -

gramming—Molitor says the hardest part has been personal. “This is the first time I’ve had to do a project completely on my own,” he says. “That was tough. But now at least I have friends here, with the groups we’ve got.”

As the Pride Center approaches its one-year mark, Molitor is staying grounded in his mission and hopeful for what’s next.

“I want people to come here and make a new friend,” he says. “That’s really it. That’s the heart of it.”

For more information, visit pridecentergalveston.org

Pride Center Galveston, in a reimagined 1924 pharmacy building, now serves as a gathering space for the island’s LGBTQ community.

ISLAND PRIDE RETURNS

A free weekend of unity and celebration in Galveston is slated for August.

by BRANDON WOLF

Pride Galveston returns once again in late August 2025 to the Island City south of Houston. What started as a single beach event in 2017 has evolved this year into a multi-event weekend with a variety of opportunities to celebrate 2025 Pride.

Directors Jamie and Terry Fuller-Waymire and director Yvonne Tutt have worked hard to produce a weekend of diversity, Pride, and unity for Island residents and guests. All events are free, and most are adult oriented.

Terry, 45, and his husband, Jamie, 54, have lived in Galveston since 2015. They have been partners for 15 years. Tutt, 43, has made Galveston her home since 2018.

Friday, August 29

Pride Month Party at Pride Center Galevston

7:00–9:00 p.m.

The weekend kicks off with a meet-and-greet at the Pride Center, a nonprofit coffee shop that supports a variety of Pride activities on the Island, including the Galveston Gay Chorus, a speaker series, business networking, an art gallery, and social events such as potlucks, cookouts, coffee hours, and karaoke parties. Pride Center, 1514 39th Street pridecentergalveston.org

Robert’s Lafitte Drag Show

10:30 p.m.

A drag extravaganza will be held at Robert’s Lafitte. The bar is the longest operating gay bar in the state of Texas owned by the same person, the late Robert Mainor. The bar opened in 1969—shortly after the Stonewall riots—and has continued to offer a relaxed atmosphere and outrageous drag productions over the decades. Organizers describe this year’s show as “the best of the best.” The newly crowned Mister and Miss Pride Galveston

The Fuller-Waymires have a talent for organizing events, and because there was no annual Pride celebration in Galveston, friends asked them to create one. Tutt joined Pride Galveston three years ago, and this leader of the 400-member Galveston Island Rainbow Lesbian Society (GIRLS) was the perfect fit.

Pride Galveston is a registered nonprofit organization. The directors work hard throughout the year meeting with City officials, applying for permits, planning logistics, and finding sponsors and partners. The weekend of Galveston’s Pride celebration is held in late August—late enough to avoid conflict with local Pride events in nearby cities, and just when summer heat has begun to subside.

will make special appearances.

Robert’s Lafitte, 2501 Avenue Q. www.facebook.com/RLafitte2501

Saturday, August 30

The Beach Hut

10:00 a.m–5:00 p.m.

A giant beach bash will be held at The Beach Hut. More than 23 vendors and sponsors will be set up on the lower level of The Beach Hut, along with a live DJ. This kid-friendly and pet-friendly event will give direct access to the beach.

The Beach Hut is a new business that is supportive of the LGBTQ community. It has an expansive menu that includes Goan (Indian) specialties, alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks, and a variety of hookah pipe flavors. The Beach Hut, 731 Seawall Boulevard. thebeachhutseawall.com

Robert’s Lafitte Neon Party

9:00 p.m.–2:00 a.m.

A neon party will be held at Robert’s Lafitte bar with a drag show and free goodies for at-

tendees. Guests are encouraged to wear white or vivid neon colors that will stand out under the black lights, which the Fuller-Waymires have donated to the bar.

Sunday, August 31

Robert’s Lafitte Pool Party 12:00 Noon – 7:00 p.m.

The weekend will end with an afternoon pool party on the patio of Robert’s Lafitte, featuring several mini drag shows, male exotic dancers, a live DJ, and several vendors.

“Our big thing is that we like to create safe places. That has always been our goal,” Terry Fuller-Waymire says. “Whether you are part of our community or are someone who supports us, we try to create events where everybody feels welcome.”

Tutt agrees: “We’re here for people to feel safe—for the younger people to know that it’s a place for them to belong and for the older members of the community, too. We don’t want anyone to feel like they have to hide who they are. They can just be themselves.”

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Living Outside the Lines

Houston artist Wyntress X’ion reflects on identity, visibility, and creative expression.

by BRANDON WOLF | photo by ALEX ROSA

The week of July 14–20 is International Non-Binary People’s Awareness Week. To help expand that awareness, OutSmart magazine talked with local artist Wyntress X’ion who identifies as nonbinary on the gender spectrum.

X’ion, a 37-year-old Houston native, is a self-taught Black queer artist who blends vibrant visuals with advocacy. Their work spans fine art, fashion, and performance, often exploring themes of identity and healing.

Looking back to when they first realized they were non-binary, X’ion says, “Before you have words for something, I think it’s like I just knew when I was a kid. Something was different about me. But I didn’t have any representation of anybody that looked like me, until about five years ago.”

As for the awareness week, X’ion says, “Just as it is important to celebrate holidays, it is important to celebrate people, to give recognition that not only do you know individually that you exist, but that it is on a larger scale. Especially with everything that’s going on in the world now.”

X’ion says they define nonbinary as their superpower, “because I get to live at the intersections of masculine and feminine energy. Now that I’ve gotten older, I don’t have to sit inside of a box; I am able to be fluid, owning both parts when I need to. Sometimes letting one part be at the forefront and the other energy takes a passenger seat. I can exist in this even flow.”

The most common misconception that exists about nonbinary people, X’ion says, is that others may assume they already know all there is to know about gender, and do not try to hear what the lived experience of others is.

A defining moment for X’ion came in the ninth grade. The eighth grade had been a difficult one for them and their best friend, because of perceived homosexuality. But dur-

ing the summer, they decided to enter the next school year with authenticity. They shopped for clothes and got new haircuts. The night before the first day of school, they talked on the phone and said that tomorrow was going to be a special day, one that they would only be able to live once. “Twenty years later, I’m still that

“I DEFINE NON-BINARY AS MY SUPERPOWER, BECAUSE I GET TO LIVE AT THE INTERSECTIONS OF MASCULINE AND FEMININE ENERGY… I CAN EXIST IN THIS EVEN FLOW.”

—Wyntress X’ion

person,” X’ion says.

In 2022, X’ion was among the artists chosen to be the Harris County Cultural Arts Council’s inaugural resident artists. They put together “Ebony Love Letter,” an immersive exhibition consisting of 20 contemporary and abstract works in a variety of media from acrylics and oil pastels to papier-mâché and collage.

X’ion describes the show as “a love letter to Black culture, which also ultimately shows that Black history is American history.” Using vibrant colors, they paid tribute to such cultural influences as Muhammad Ali, Basquiat, Sade, Billie Holiday, and Harriet Tubman.

X’ion has also participated in numerous art efforts of the T.R.U.T.H. Project, including Joy Found Us, a celebration of joy, resilience, and authenticity.

This year, X’ion designed the Pride Month shirts for Houston Dash, the city’s women’s soccer team. Using their signature vibrant colors, the shirts centered around a theme of unity, liberation, and freedom.

“I built the design thinking of what a mural would look like in Montrose or Midtown or Third Ward. I wanted to speak to anybody from any walk of life—no matter if you identify with anybody in the community or just if you know anybody from any different walk of life. It was a fun project, and it expanded not only my creative range, but it really made me put words to what I feel.” The Dash wore the shirts last month in this year’s Pride parade.

Reflecting on the current repressive political environment, X’ion says that they lean on their community. “The community knows that you’re here, and it knows that you are in need. It helps just being around other people who are impacted. But also in the same breath, we’re holding our space.“

Keep up with Wyntress X’ion on Instagram @wyntressxion.

Local artist Wyntress X’ion brings the Houston Dash’s 2025 Play with Pride jersey to life.

Queer Camp Meets Vaudeville

Inside the wild world of this year’s Tamarie Cooper Show.

by BRANDON WOLF

photo by ANTHONY RATHBUN

Catastrophic Theatre’s annual original summer musical has returned for its 29th year, running now through August 2. Produced by Tamarie Cooper and Patrick Reynolds, this year’s show is titled Another Ding-Dang Tamarie Show and promises to take guests behind the scenes as Cooper shares production secrets.

An Iconic Gay Community Show Cooper, 54, is a winner of multiple OutSmart Gayest & Greatest awards. She has won numerous other local awards, but says the OutSmart awards “mean so much more to me than any of the others.” Cooper is a long-time ally of the LGBTQ community, and many of her closest friends are LGBTQ . “There is lots of creativity in that community,” she says. Born in Chicago, Cooper moved to Houston at age 14 and started as a sophomore in what is now known as the Kinder High School for the Performing and Visual Arts. After college, she was active in progressive political causes and worked as a bartender at Axiom, a local punk rock club. Eventually, she gravitated to Catastrophic Theatre.

The theater company got its name from the idea that when a person goes through any kind

of catastrophic experience, they come away as a changed person. “It forces you to look at yourself and at everything around you and reevaluate,” says Cooper.

Cooper’s background is in dance, and she has dabbled somewhat in choreography. Her first summer show played for one weekend. It featured a fashion show with friends modeling vintage clothes and taking part in dance numbers. She even served a homemade pasta dinner.

“None of the shows are very deep on plot,” says Cooper. “They are more like a 1970s or 1980s variety show—with a feel of vaudeville.” Catastrophic Theatre has been very nomadic— moving from one venue to another—but has now settled at the Midtown Arts and Theater Center. “It allows us to focus more on the art itself without worrying about managing a facility,” Cooper explains.

Last year’s theme was Texas and was a send-up of all things Texas, including Whataburger, celebrities, and everything that is bigger in Texas. Planning for the summer shows starts in January. People return year after year to help write the book, the music, and the dialogue. Cooper champions new artists and playwrights.

The summer shows now have a cult follow-

ing, who feel that it’s not really summer unless there is a new Tamarie show. Though there is a group of core artists, Cooper is always looking for fresh talent, and every year new actors join the regulars. “We like to find people with a special creativity and a special charisma on stage,” she says. “People often come in through Houston Alliance auditions and from the University of Houston.”

There are usually 15–17 cast members in the summer shows, and there is a live fourpiece band. “It’s a big production,” Cooper adds, “a lot of people and a lot of costumes. The costume changes backstage are frantic madness.”

The shows are often about Cooper’s thoughts and ruminations but also poke fun at what is happening in the world, including politics. “One actor has played Ted Cruz five times now,” she explains, “once he was eaten by a dinosaur. This year, there are moments of addressing politics because everything seems so heightened now.”

Cooper sees the summer shows as sort of a ridiculous bonanza. “People just gather together and let loose—it’s over-the-top and crazy on stage. Laughter can really be the best medicine,” she says.

Cooper smiles as she speaks about her costar Kyle Sturdivant. She describes their stage

relationship as much like Carol Burnett and Harvey Korman. “In almost every show there is some moment where one of us cracks the other one up,” she says with a chuckle.

The unexpected can be expected. Years ago, in another venue, the dimmers blew and all the power went out. Cooper spoke into the darkness, “Is there an electrician in the house?” As luck would have it, there was. After an extralong intermission, the show continued.

Cooper hopes the audience will take with them the collective communal joy of coming together. “That is obviously the real reason we do this,” she says.

In recognition of National Non-Binary People’s Week this month, OutSmart talked to two of the show’s cast who identify as nonbinary—Clarity Welch and Abe Zapata.

LIVING BEYOND THE BINARY Clarity Welch

This year is Clarity Welch’s fourth year in the summer show. “Some of the cast has been doing this for a significant portion of the last 28 years, so it’s really a little family,” they say.

Welch has appeared in the past as a giant cockroach and also as a sexy lollipop. Costume changes had to be quick. “I had to switch costumes and switch characters in my brain fast,” they emphasize.

Welch, 35, who identifies as pansexual, is a native Houstonian. They came out as nonbinary in 2015, after they started really thinking about it. “I knew I was under some sort of trans umbrella from a very young age,” they say.

“When early on I came out as nonbinary, people essentially ignored it. They didn’t use my pronouns or care to know what they meant. Over the past ten years, I have seen that totally change. It’s even more important now—we’re not going away, just because of policies that may make it seem like we should.”

“My vision of the gender spectrum is that you can go to all kinds of places. You don’t have to describe yourself as masculine or feminine. There’s something else that you can be. You know you could be any of those things.”

Welch feels that the most mistaken perception people have of nonbinary people is that they should dress and present androgynously. “Nonbinary people can look and sound and dress however they want in whatever they want,” says Welch, “so I wear dresses still. I wear much more masculine clothing too. You can’t really judge a book by its cover. How someone feels inside may be quite different than how they are presenting.”

Welch says that they are very proud to have been voted Best Nonbinary Actor by OutSmart readers three years in a row. They describe the summer shows as “very, very queer-focused.”

“LAUGHTER CAN REALLY BE THE BEST MEDICINE. PEOPLE JUST GATHER TOGETHER AND LET LOOSE—IT’S OVER-THE-TOP AND CRAZY ONSTAGE.”

— Tamarie Cooper

UNAPOLOGETICALLY FLUID

Abe Zapata

Abe Zapata, 40, who identifies as queer, is a veteran of the summer shows. Born in Harlingen, Texas, and raised in Grand Rapids, Michigan, they made their way to Houston.

They remember two particular costumes that became iconic. One was as a man dressed in white boxers with mismatched socks who flogged himself with a rubber chicken; the other was the personification of Flag Day, dressed in a Statue of Liberty-inspired robe with American flags around the crown, and a flag in each hand. “It’s summer camp for adults,” they laugh.

Zapata uses the term “gender fluid” in place of non-binary, but the idea is the same. They began to embrace the term a couple years ago, after years of seeing how members of Catastrophic Theatre were embracing and supportive of others’ pronouns.

Also, with the passing of their father recently, they felt freed from his expectations. “My father was very macho—not in a cruel way, but he had strong ideas about what was male and what was female.” Recently, they have grown out their hair and had their ears pierced.

“I don’t see the harm in celebrating somebody’s individuality, no matter what it is. It doesn’t have to be a designated day,” says Zapata. They feel it’s just important to approach life with lots of love, understanding, and empathy. They know that most people consider them male, but they feel that it’s a wonderful thing when those close to them embrace their pronouns.

Zapata feels that being nonbinary is just “taking yourself moment by moment.” During the day they are very masculine-presenting at work. “But when I go to the theater at night and work as an actor,” they say, “I allow myself to be the full range of whatever I am in that moment.”

Zapata feels that the most common misconception about nonbinary people is that they are seeking attention or want preferential treatment. “The majority of nonbinary people who I know personally are not trying to demand change. They just want their truths to be embraced,” they say.

Reflecting on the current political climate, Zapata leans into their Catastrophic Theatre family and Houston’s queer community. “Being a person of color, being queer, being non-binary, this is my day-to-day life from a very young age,” says Zapata, “so this is nothing new, it’s nothing scary, it’s just another day in the life.”

When Zapata was very young, they attempted to take their own life, ultimately realizing they had the choice between living and dying. The experience made them realize that because they chose life, they should live the best that they can. “I try to show as much grace as life has shown me,” they assert.

WHAT: Another Ding-Dang Tamarie Show WHEN: June 27–August 2

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Choreographed Chaos

Houston-based tenor Brian Yeakley returns to the stage in Gilbert & Sullivan Society’s production of Iolanthe.

by DAVID CLARKE | photo by SHANNON LANGMAN

If you ask Brian Yeakley why he keeps coming back to the Houston Gilbert & Sullivan Society, his answer is as layered as the operettas themselves.

“I started out as a music theater major, actually before I went into opera. Before that, I was a cello player for 10 years. Classical music was the way I functioned for a long time,” he shares. “The first show I ever saw, actually, was the one we’re doing this year, Iolanthe. It combines my old life of music-theater love. We even have choreography. Nowadays, it’s more me putting all of my talents in one, and it’s really fun.”

That fusion of music, movement, and melodrama is precisely what makes the Society’s upcoming staging of Iolanthe a summer standout. Staged originally in 1882, the comic opera remains surprisingly timely, especially with Yeakley playing Lord Tolloller, one of the peers who spar with a cadre of fierce, magical fairies.

“It’s basically a battle of the sexes—men versus women,” Yeakley explains. “However, there’s a complete transformation of gender norms and everything like that. The fairies are all very tough and scary, and the kings and peers are all very cowardly and maybe a little bit gay.”

If you think an operetta that’s over 140 years old might feel stale, Yeakley is quick to reassure skeptics. “Like most performances of all the old stuff today, it’s completely revamped, completely renewed,” says Yeakley. “It still has a nod to the traditions that it’s based upon, but you definitely will be pleasantly surprised.”

“It’s much more like a musical than an opera,” he adds. “That’s the beauty of operetta. It’s really accessible.”

In this production, accessibility also comes by way of clever staging. “Our director, she has all these crazy, cool little circus-isms that are happening throughout,” Yeakley teases. “You’ll want to definitely check it out for the fun staging and choreography we’ve got going on.”

For Yeakley, who previously portrayed the romantic lead Frederick in The Pirates of Penzance, Lord Tolloller represents a shift into comic territory. “This time it’s more one of my

bread-and-butter roles,” he says of playing the comedic sidekick. “Tolloller in this instance means ‘so-so.’ So he’s okay at everything. There’s nothing he’s super good at. But of course, I’m going to be adding high notes all over the place because that’s what I do.”

Working closely with his scene partner (playing Lord Mountararat), Yeakley describes their dynamic as “exactly” like Lumière and Cogsworth from Beauty and the Beast. “It’s just so satisfying,” he adds. “We just came up with a little dance yesterday, a little soft-shoe. Our director gave us a cane and said, ‘You two split this cane, come up with something.’ So we did a little bit of choreography with a little cane.”

Despite the lighthearted tone, Yeakley also sees deeper value in the show’s themes. “The

hijinks that the men get up to all by themselves, it’s so funny. And honestly, it’s paralleling and making fun of current political climate things on a very subtle scale,” he says.

The playful yet pointed subversion of traditional gender roles and performance is what Yeakley thinks will resonate with queer audiences in particular. “At the very beginning, all of the fairies, played by all the girls in the show, sing this light and fairy-like music,” he explains. “But, at the end, they sing ‘We are dainty little fairies,’ but it sounds almost masculine.” But the masculine energy of the fairies doesn’t end there. “They kick our butts throughout the entire show,” he adds. “It’s really entertaining that way.”

Ultimately, Iolanthe is more than just ➝

escapist fun. “It’s making us take everything with a little bit more grace and allowing us to make fun of ourselves,” notes Yeakley. “We can be content in the socio-political progress that we’ve made, and we still acknowledge that we have a long way to go, but we can also laugh about what we currently have.”

That sense of balance, of honoring tradition while still moving the needle forward, is something Yeakley also brings to his own

work beyond the stage. As the founder of the nonprofit Operativo Houston, he’s committed to expanding access to opera performance roles. “I wanted even more opportunities for operatically trained young singers who are right in between going full professional, where you get the calls versus the auditioning,” he explains. “You get the experience, but you don’t have all of the pressure of leading a big house.”

“Currently,” he continues, “how young

artists figure this all out is they go through a young-artist program track.” Those tracks offer non-livable wages, which is not a way that artists can afford to live unless they have a sponsor or parents that are wealthy enough to subsidize their livelihoods. “We just need more and more arts organizations that are on the smaller side, providing more performance opportunities for people who aren’t quite at the A-house level.”

Yeakley credits Houston’s vibrant arts scene as one of the reasons he remains based in the city. “There’s just so much variety here, and it’s all really good stuff,” he says. “That’s the reason I haven’t decided to live on the East Coast.”

“Basically, I want this to just scream in their face and have them remember it for a really long time,” he says, laughing, about what he hopes audiences will take away from this production of Iolanthe. “It’s such a joyous show, and there’s so much energy and life. Also, our chorus is full of really talented young people this year, so all of us old people should watch our backs a little bit!”

WHAT: Houston’s Gilbert & Sullivan Society’s Iolanthe

WHEN: July 19–27, 2025

WHERE: Zilkha Hall, Hobby Center for the Performing Arts

INFO: gilbertandsullivan.org/iolanthe

Brian Yeakley takes center stage during a rehearsal for the Gilbert & Sullivan Society.

FROM COSPLAY TO CASTLE VOWS

Kaldec Frenzel and Aubrey Register turned Castle McCulloch into a deeply personal celebration of queer joy.

Some weddings start with a ring. Others start with a ribbon. Kaldec “Kal” Frenzel’s and Aubrey “Bree” Register’s started with a late arrival at Japan Fest, a cosplay convention meetcute, and a kiss on the cheek that changed everything.

“I was the photographer, and she was the model—who was late,” Kal recalls with a smile. “Traffic was insane. I was panicking. Makeup running down my face. Total disaster,” Bree jumps in.

It was 2015. Both were in relationships and not looking for anyone else. But fate, and a shared love of anime and fantasy, kept drawing them back together. They reconnected months later at San Japan in San Antonio. Bree ran up to Kal, excited to see a familiar face. His

by DAVID CLARKE photos by BRIAN ANTHONY

response? “Who are you?” Bree laughs, “I was the girl who was late!”

Fast forward a few years and a cross-state move later, and Kal and Bree were texting until 4 a.m., navigating long-distance affection and quietly falling for one another. “We were very big on not crossing boundaries,” Bree says. “But the night he surprised me at an anime con for my birthday, I kissed him on the cheek. And he called his friend and said, ‘I’m in trouble.’”

Their first official date in 2017 was at the Austin Trail of Lights after their original Lord of the Rings marathon plans at Alamo Drafthouse fell through. “We do it every year now,” Kal says. “Even on our honeymoon, we found a light show at the New York Botanical Garden. It’s our December 21st tradition.”

The proposal wasn’t what Kal had planned, but it was perfect nonetheless. “I had the ring for two weeks. I was waiting for it to rain so I

could propose at a gas station like Jim does to Pam in The Office,” he says. But after an upsetting encounter at a Korean spa, Kal decided not to wait any longer. “It was a terrible day. But I still wanted to be with her. So I proposed in a gas station parking lot.”

Bree, stunned, looked down at him. “This is a joke, right?”

Kal grinned. “Does this look like a joke?” She burst into tears. “Of course I said yes,” Bree says with a beaming smile.

Their wedding, held on December 19 at Castle McCulloch in North Carolina, embodied everything that makes Kal and Bree, well, Kal and Bree. “We had a Lord of the Rings theme,” Bree says. “The venue was already so beautiful. We didn’t need to do much. It looked like a real Scottish castle.”

“It is a real Scottish castle,” Kal adds. “A family built a replica of their home in Scotland

Kaldec “Kal” Frenzel’s (l) and Aubrey “Bree” Register

here in the US. It was gorgeous.”

And while the budget-friendly out-of-state venue made sense financially—“It would’ve cost $60–$80K in Texas,” Kal says—the wedding’s intimacy made it even more special.

“We had ten people in our bridal party and only about six to ten additional guests,” Bree explains. “Everyone important to us was either in the wedding or standing with us at the altar.”

Personal touches were everywhere. Their ceremony music, composed and performed live by Duo Licht, included selections from Final Fantasy X, XIV, and VII. “I walked down the aisle to Aerith’s theme,” Bree says. “It was perfect.”

“We’re big Final Fantasy fans,” Kal explains, “and the musicians were phenomenal. They even composed original music just for us.”

That deep sense of collaboration extended across the wedding team. “Our photographer, Brian Anthony, was incredible,” Bree says. “He and his wife were so good at making everyone comfortable. You could tell they were used to working with creative people.”

“They pointed the camera at our group,” Kal adds, “and everyone just snapped into pose. Fashion kids, cosplayers; we’re used to it.”

Decor-wise, Kal made the boutonnieres,

Bree hand-decorated lanterns for the bridesmaids, and the venue provided the bride’s bouquet and groom’s boutonnière. A planned handfasting ribbon was accidentally left upstairs, but quick thinking saved the moment. “My maid of honor was a queen,” Bree says. “She undid the ribbon from my bouquet on the spot.”

The couple wrote their own vows and leaned into a pagan ceremony style officiated by longtime friend Joe McCorkle. “He’s been part of my cosplay group since 2005,” Kal says. “He got ordained before we were even engaged. He told us, ‘I know you’re going to get married, so I’m getting my license now.’”

Of course, not everything went as planned. “There was drama,” Bree admits. “Families have feelings. But having the right people in our corner made the difference.”

“My maid of honor literally told the rest of the party, ‘You come to me with problems. Bree doesn’t need drama on her wedding day,’” Bree recalls. “That kind of advocacy from your people, that’s what I’ll never forget.”

Kal’s favorite part was meeting one of his closest Final Fantasy XIV friends in person for the first time. “She flew in for the wedding. We’d never met before. She told her mom, ‘I might die in the woods of Carolina, but I’m

going to this wedding!’” Kal laughs. “She was amazing.”

Other standout moments included the cake. “Curbside Cakery made a vegan cake that fooled everyone,” Bree states. “Handsdown, the best cake I’ve ever had.”

As for the food, it wasn’t perfect, but Culinary Visions responded well to their vegan needs. “They handled substitutions and were open to changes, which we appreciated,” Kal says.

They planned the wedding themselves, Bree working full-time as a community engagement coordinator and Kal bringing his marketing and photo know-how to the logistics. “We knew how to pull off events. That helped a lot,” Bree says.

Their advice to other queer couples? “Look outside your state. It saved us a ton,” Bree offers. “And know your people. Choose folks who will fight for your joy.”

Kal nods, “Expect something to go wrong, and just roll with it.”

And if all else fails? “Channel Jim and Pam,” he laughs. “Even the worst day can end with a proposal.”

KATY PRIDE SECOND BIRTHDAY PARTY

JUNE 26, 2025

Katy Pride celebrated its second birthday with a lively party featuring Adrian’s Tacos, dancing, cake, and door prizes. When the original venue canceled two weeks prior due to a family emergency, organizers quickly shifted to Katy’s First Christian Church, ensuring the event went on without a hitch. Hosted with support from the Greater Houston LGBTQ Chamber of Commerce and

Representative Jon E. Rosenthal, the evening also included sponsorships by First Christian Church Katy, The American Silver Museum, Ezee Fiber, and AHF Pharmacy. In a statement, Rep. Rosenthal affirmed his commitment to standing with LGBTQ communities amid political attacks. Katy Pride President Amanda M. Rose emphasized that the organization’s events foster visibility, empowerment, and belonging for LGBTQ individuals.

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HOUSTON PRIDE 365

PARADE 2025

JUNE 28, 2025

An estimated 700,000 people gathered in downtown Houston for the 47th annual Pride Houston 365 Parade, one of the largest Pride events in the South. The parade brought together LGBTQ Houstonians, allies, community groups, and elected officials in a bold display of visibility and unity—despite shifting political headwinds.

This year’s parade took place in the shadow of increased political attacks on

LGBTQ rights and diversity initiatives, largely driven by the current federal administration’s stance against DEI (diversity, equity, and inclusion) programs. As a result, there was a noticeable drop in corporate participation. Still, major companies including Amazon, ExxonMobil, T-Mobile, Phillips 66, and Dow joined the celebration, standing in support of the LGBTQ community. Several other companies’ LGBTQ Employee Resource Groups also participated.

Local, state, and federal elected officials were also present, underscoring the importance of civic leadership in defending LGBTQ rights. Participants included Houston

Mayor John Whitmire, City Council Member Mario Castillo, State Reps. Jon Rosenthal and Jolanda Jones, Harris County Commissioners Lesley Briones, Adrian Garcia, and Rodney Ellis, and US Rep. Sylvia Garcia.

Faith-based groups and grassroots organizations were also well-represented, highlighting the broad coalition that continues to push for equity and inclusion across Greater Houston.

With music, floats, signs, and thousands of cheering spectators lining the streets, the 2025 Pride Parade was both a celebration and a statement: the LGBTQ community remains visible, engaged, and united.

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JUNE 21, 2025

In honor of the tenth anniversary of the U.S. Supreme Court’s landmark ruling on marriage equality, the Montrose Center hosted Proudly Ever After—a vibrant mass wedding ceremony held June 21 in the heart of Houston’s LGBTQ community. The celebration brought together ten couples—two exchanging vows for the first time and eight reaffirming their commitments—in a joyful expression of queer

love, history, and solidarity.The ceremony featured a diverse group of officiants, including civil leaders, religious figures, and secular voices, each offering affirming reflections that centered inclusivity. The original Gilbert Baker Pride flag, on loan from the Gilbert Baker Foundation, served as a symbolic backdrop, grounding the moment in queer resistance and legacy.

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LGBTQ bars and clubs in and around Houston, including your favorites in Galveston, Huntsville, Spring, and College Station. Whether you’re a local or a visitor, we’ve got you covered with this updated guide to the best LGBTQ-friendly spaces.

Houston Eagle

Shifts: Monday & Wednesday 4–9 pm, Thursday–Saturday 9 pm–2 am, and Sunday Funday 12 Noon–9 pm

What is your favorite shot to make? To drink?

I like to make Lemondrops and Starf--kers—a tasty Crown Royal and Red Bull shot!

Where is your favorite place to drink when not on duty?

I’m a non-drinker, so you can usually find me out riding my bike. What is a current bar drink trend you’d like to see end? Please end the Mexican Candy Shots (tequila, watermelon liqueur, and hot sauce). What are you best known for?

I’ve been with Mark DeLange, the owner of the Eagle, for 10 years since he opened. Most people know me for my Blue Balls Shot, which is a blueberry vodka mix. What is the best and worst holiday to work?

Best holiday: I’m going to count Pride as a holiday, so Pride and Halloween are the best because people are in great spirits. Worst holiday: New Year’s Eve and St. Patrick’s Day, when all of the amateurs are out!

Biggest tip from one customer?

$500 during a big party when a major

home to a wide variety of events including weekly drag-king shows, nationally known LGBTQ DJs, and a queer farmers market on the patio. 4216

This full-service venue offers distinctive food with Southern flair, a popular patio, multiple bars, VIP bottle-service areas, a large dance floor, and some of Houston’s most acclaimed resident DJs. 202 Tuam St, Houston TX 77006

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Since 1982, this leather bar has been a fixture in Houston’s LGBTQ community. It’s where the wild, the weird, and the

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By LILLY RODDY

Brace for Mercury’s Backspin

Cancer: Act early, and then lean into reflection.

The big news this month is that Mercury, our organizer and planner, will be going stationary retrograde on July 18 and stationary direct on August 11. Mercury slows down before it goes retrograde, so we begin to feel the impact a couple of days before Mercury stations. If you have things that you need to start, you should do them before the 15th. Otherwise, Mercury retrograde will slow things down. Good days this month are the 6th,

7th, 18th, and the 24th. Not-so-good days are the 4th, 13th, 23rd, 25th, and 31st. The Sun starts the month in Cancer and enters Leo on the 22nd. Mercury will be in Leo until early September. You can use Mercury retrograde as a time to take care of things you have put off, avoided, started but didn’t finish, contacting old friends and clients, visiting favorite spots, and working with what you have instead of adding more to your pile!

ARIES (Mar. 21–Apr. 19)

This is going to be a rather intense time for Aries, especially over the next two years. Some of you are rethinking career paths, retirement, escaping the rat races, and finding a peaceful place to be. You are much more sensitive to your environment, and it becomes a lot harder to ignore things that you would rather overlook. This month, the emphasis is on home and family. You may be wanting to relocate or do some home repair. Your extended family could be growing as some marry and others have children. This is also a very good time to pay attention to your health and exercise routines. With Mercury retrograde, this could be a great time to get back into your workouts. You may also be improving your workspace and being more direct with co-workers. Toward the end of the month, you are looking for more fun and less responsibility!

TAURUS (Apr. 20–May 20)

This is a huge time of personal review. You are examining your career path and the industry’s current direction. Mercury retrograde will make that feel more personal, and you may be exploring the idea of moving or downsizing. This month, you are looking at reorganizing your daily activity, as you are adding some things to your list. This can be a much busier social time that could last into the next year. This can be a great month for podcasting, taking some classes to expand your education, or planning some fun summer road trips! You will want to watch your spending this month, as you can be more impulsive in satisfying your desires! At the end of the month, your focus shifts more to home and family and the longer-term look at what your plans are for your future with a push from Mercury retrograde.

GEMINI (May 21–June 21)

There are huge changes coming to your sign this month. Uranus—the planet of change, freedom, and diversity—enters Gemini on July 7. I’m sure many of you have been feeling this restlessness and impatience.

Uranus will be in Gemini for about the next seven years. Uranus is making contact with those born in the early days when the Sun initially enters Gemini. But all of you will be impacted. Currently, the focus in your chart is on your resources, personal talents, and the things you desire. This can be an easier time to get a loan, but also an equally easy time to spend more money. With business, this is a very good time to expand your customer base before the 14th. At that time, you should work with your existing base and not expand until after mid-August. There could be more tension with family this month, and you may want to make it a safer place to live.

CANCER (June 22–July 22)

This can be a very trying time for you Moon Kids! Although you are experiencing the positive influence of Jupiter traveling through Cancer now and into the next year, you are being hit with other responsibilities that are keeping you much busier than you like to be. This is your birthday month, when you take time to look back at last year and what you hope to accomplish this year. And this is the best time of the year to concentrate on your personal interests! There is a lot of activity in your career sector, and this will be strong the whole year. You may be starting something on your own or redefining your career goals. Some of you may be semi-retiring, while others may be more interested in pursuing the deeper meaning of existence or just making a difference where you live! With Mercury retrograde in your money sector, this is a great time to review your finances.

LEO (July 23–Aug. 22)

As the month opens, there are several things going on at the same time for you. First, you are in a rest-andretreat mode, and it’s very important that you find some time for yourself. With Mercury, our communicator, already in your sign and about to go retrograde, you are already rethinking a lot of choices and decisions. You will feel more like acting on these ideas

after the 22nd. You should be connecting with people from your past and reminiscing more. You are also exploring other social options, different friends, and possibly getting involved with your local community. Watch your spending this month, as it is easy to justify what you want at the moment! Personal relationships are still changing; some for the better, while others are taking their exit. You are just being real.

VIRGO (Aug. 23–Sept.22)

You are exploring alternatives to your current career position, particularly if you are feeling bored and trapped by what you are presently doing. You are feeling the need for more personal freedom of choice in all areas of your life. This can be difficult if you have demanding people or relationships in your life. Mars, planet of action and survival, is traveling through your sign until August 6. You will just not be as patient. This can be a great time for improved health and exercise activities, confronting situations, and not waiting for anyone to give you permission to do what you want to do. This month, your focus is on your friends, organizations, and your social life. This is a great month to promote your services, your points of view, and your physical presence. Toward the later part of the month, you will need some time for rest and retreat.

LIBRA (Sept. 23–Oct. 23)

This continues to be an extra-active time for you in relationships, career, and even at home. With partnerships, you are reviewing what works and what doesn’t. This is a time of renewal for those who are working and a time of separation for those who aren’t. Your career is very active, although there are some bumps along the way. This is a very good time to take a leadership role or to explore doing something on your own. You are also being stimulated to explore the deeper meanings of life and integrating them into your existence. You are more sensitized to your environment, and you can’t ignore things that you normally would. In the later part of the month, you are expanding your social networks

and internet presence. With Mercury retrograde, you will be reconnecting with friends from your past.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24–Nov. 21)

Although you are in a time of reviewing your basic plans for life, home, family, and career, you are ready for a break this month. This is a much better time for getting away from your routines and daily demands. Even with Mercury retrograde, this is a good time to get away to a familiar place. This is also a good time to teach a class, work on a podcast/video, promote your services on social media, and deal with any legal problems. You are continuing to work on relieving yourself of debt and making better investments. In the latter half of the month, your career and personal responsibility area is very active, especially with Mercury retrograde. This would be a good time to think about where you are and where you would like to be. It is a time of research and planning, as you hold back on your actions until after mid-August.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov.22–Dec.21)

Your relationship arena is very active this year, and even more so after the 11th of this month. If you are in a good partnership, this is a great time to set a new path and revitalize your relationship. If you are in a difficult partnership, this will be a real test of its durability. If you are single, this is a good time to meet people who are open-minded. You may also decide that keeping your own company instead of inviting cohabitation is

better for you! This is an excellent time for investments, refinancing, and increasing your fees for your services. This is your time to take a leadership role at work so that you aren’t frustrated with the people in charge. In the latter part of the month, you are more direct in your communications!

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22–Jan. 19)

This is certainly a challenging time for you with your primary areas of self, home, relationships, and career all being activated at the same time. You could easily feel pulled in multiple directions. Home and family issues are taking up most of the space in your head! With your home and family, there could be old folks passing, shifting the family power base. You may be considering remodeling or relocating. With the current distractions, you may not be able to be as focused on your work as usual. Relationships—although very active—are fairly positive, but partnerships require your time! You will want to pay closer attention to your bank statements, bills, and online charges, especially during the latter part of the month.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20–Feb. 18)

This certainly has been an intense six months for you. Your tolerance is very low and will continue low through the end of August. This may really test your relationships. Good relationships will pass the test, but negative ones will go by the wayside. This month the emphasis is on your personal routines and habits.

At work, this is a great time to improve your office or workspace and improve your relationships with your co-workers. This is also a super time to improve your health and exercise routines, while you are more open to trying new things. In the latter part of the month, the emphasis shifts to partnerships. With Mercury retrograde in your partnership arena, you are reviewing relationships from the past, connecting with people from your past, and taking time to renew the bonds in your current relationship. This is most effective August 11–18.

PISCES (Feb. 19–Mar. 20)

Finances, monetary investments, your rate of pay, and how well you use your talents are all being activated this year! The rising cost of living has you worried, and you feel that being more conservative is the right path. Your sense of empathy is even stronger than normal. Relationships can be fairly demanding over the next month and a half. Don’t ignore them or the problems will mount up. If you are single, this is a very good time to put yourself out there before the 14th or after August 15. Old health problems could resurface, especially after midmonth. Nevertheless, this remains a good time to pay attention to your diet. Even with all this activity, you are in a creative time. This is an excellent time to be blogging, podcasting, and expanding your presence on social media.

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Keeping It Sweet

Malibu Blake Von Schweetz serves up both sugar and spice.

By SAM BYRD | Photo by SEFERINO GARCIA

The confectionary performer goes from cake maker by day to sassy drag queen by night. Her sugary sweet persona is enough to give the audience a cavity, and her multiple talents number like a baker’s dozen. Find the reigning Miss Gay Texas, at Halo in Bryan or Rain on the 4th of July, or traveling over Texas coordinating prelims for the next titleholder. Find out more about this delicious diva below.

Pronouns?

He/Him out of drag, or she/her in drag.

Hometown?

Navasota, Texas

Drag birthday?

June 10, 2019

Story behind the stage name?

It is a mix of my favorite alcohol, Malibu Rum, because you always can have a good time with a little bit of Malibu. Blake is from my “glam mother,” Dessie Love Blake. Von Schweetz is from the princess of Sugar Rush Venelope Von Schweetz (Wreck it Ralph), being that I am a bakery owner decorating cakes and sweets by day, this seemed fitting. Thus, Malibu Blake Von Schweetz was born.

What got you interested in drag?

I have always had a passion for the performing arts. Growing up in theater in high school, I was the tech kid working on props, set designs, make up, hair, etc., but never actually performed on stage. Watching RuPaul’s Drag Race made me decide I should give it a go, so I signed up for Dessie’s Drag Race where my mom made my first costume, my sister put me in makeup, and my husband drove me to the bar to perform for the first time. Six years later, I’m still going.

Describe your performing persona. I like to think of Malibu as the campy pageant queen. She is a big personality who’s not afraid to have a little fun with looks or mixes, but will always come out polished and professional.

Any titles or pageants under your belt? I am the reigning Miss Gay Texas America. I have found a home within the America System and truly have enjoyed getting to be a part of this sisterhood. As we are currently in the middle of the battle for the crown for the 2025 prelim season, I encourage any of those who have ever been interested in competing in a

pageant to go for it. Pageants can be intimidating at first, but honestly, the friendships and relationships you can gain from it are worth it even if you don’t win the crown.

Describe your outfit.

This outfit was designed and created by one of my good friends and the extremely talented designer Yahaira Dehill of Yahaira Dehill Designs. This outfit was the first presentation look I wore on the Miss Gay America stage as Miss Gay Texas America since the theme was Met Gala Avant-Garde. I wanted to show a fashion night ready to battle on the runway, and I think Yahaira absolutely killed it.

What’s on your bucket list?

For drag: To win Miss Gay America one day. Out of drag: To visit all of the Disney parks around the world.

Most embarrassing moment onstage?

This is honestly something that happened the very first time I stepped foot on stage to perform. Mid-performance, my heel broke on the stairs of the original Rich’s, and I fell hard. I like to reflect on that moment as a building block that helped shape me into the performer I am, but it also taught me to buy better shoes.

Thoughts about legislation restricting drag performances?

With so many other crazy things going on in the world, why they feel the need to spend so much time on us is just wild to me. We are just trying to live our lives as ourselves, which should not bother anyone. I will continue to put on my makeup and live my life performing whether they want me to or not.

Marry, Shag, Kill: Cyclops, Wolverine, Gambit?

Marry Wolverine, because, duh, daddy! Shag Gambit. Kill Cyclops.

Follow Malibu on Facebook at Malibu Blake Von Schweetz and on Instagram @MalibuVonSchweetz